We all know that before taking any action we should think the outcome of that or we should atleast think why r we doing it...isn't it?? this is what we hav learnt...
But sometimes situations come across us when we have no option or no time or because of ny other reason we need to take decision without going through the pre-requisite process called "thinking".....this happens many times and we have to face the consequences of it if any...
But the moment we realize that now we can't change the decision or the step we have taken from that very moment we start preparing ourselves to face the challenges that step can bring to us or we start trying to defend that very mistake we have commited...I m sure this happens with everyone (m not abnormal i think) :)
Now I like to bring the attention of u all at the point that while trying hard to defend that mistake or to prevent ourselves from the bad consequences sometimes we come out to be with very different personality or I can say this sometimes find out a new personality hidden inside u and this is sometimes very helpful...and shows u a new direction of the life...
Before proceeding further I would like to mention here that such cases are very frequent with me i.e I take decision spontaneously and have a weakness that once I decide I can't change my decision even I know that something, something wrong is with this thing...this has made me going through a lot of cases where I learn a lot of things just to defend that mistake or that step...
A very recent one I would like to mention here is that while fillin the hobbies part in Detailed Application Form of IES I was not sure what to write as the thing I m passionate about cannot be expressed in wrds in any form :P
So I mentioned a thing which I never saw even others practicing and that is "Yoga"
Now,while writing this on the form I was knowing that something is wrong with it but I couldn't stop myself from doin this and I posted that duly filled and signed Form...:(
Now,I have got a few days for interview and the only thing I could do to defend myself in the interview is to learn Yoga atleast theoretically coz I'll be wearing "Trousers" at that time and this will protect me from performing the live show there in the UPSC premises (lucky :))
But after I bought a book called "YOGA" and tried to learn these things this showed me the greatness of all this stuff...Now whenevr I get time I instead of learning theoretically only I also try to practice them and really this helps a lot...
I don't know why m I sharing this with u all here but one thing I want to tell u all that -"Make decisions which suits the moment, don't waste time in thinking process...u will surely learn a new lesson...and learning is the motto of life,learning never stops...stop being dependent on others and stop flowing with the wind make ur decisions and make them work for u...this is a time to do what u like and time never comes back..so utilize it to make u happy"...
A mis-take is a mistake only if u cant defend it but if u can then it is an opportunity for you to learn something...
Arian
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